Things People Do That Cats Hate

Cats are fascinating creatures known for their independence, elegance, and mysterious nature. While they can be loving and affectionate, they also have their own preferences and dislikes. As cat owners and enthusiasts, it's essential to understand what behaviours and actions can potentially upset our feline friends. So, let’s explore some common things that people do, often unknowingly, that cats tend to dislike.  

Ignoring boundaries

Cats value their personal space and enjoy moments of solitude. One common mistake people make is disregarding their cat's boundaries. Forcing physical contact, invading their resting areas, or cornering them can make cats feel anxious and stressed. It's crucial to respect their personal space and allow them to approach you when they feel comfortable.

Rough handling

Cats may seem agile and flexible, but they have delicate bodies that require gentle handling. Rough petting, pulling their tails, or squeezing them too tightly can cause pain or discomfort. It's important to remember that cats have sensitive areas and prefer gentle strokes and caresses.

Loud noises

Cats have highly sensitive hearing, which makes them more susceptible to loud and sudden noises. Shouting, slamming doors, or playing loud music can startle and distress them. It's advisable to create a calm and quiet environment for your feline companion, especially during their resting or sleep times. Create a safe space for your cat to hide when they feel threatened. This can be as simple as placing a cardboard box in a quiet corner or high places like on top of your wardrobe. Some cats feel comfortable when they are up high because it makes it easier for them to survey their territory.  

Inconsistent routines

Cats thrive on routine and predictability. Cats are creatures of habit and thrive on routine. A consistent feeding schedule helps establish a predictable daily routine for your cat, providing them with a sense of security and stability. They learn to anticipate meal times and can structure their activities around them. Abrupt changes in their feeding schedule, playtime, or litter box placement can unsettle them. So maintaining a consistent routine, especially their feeding schedule, helps them feel secure and content. For busy cat parents, having an automatic feeder like this PETKIT FRESH Element Mini 2.8L Smart Pet Cat & Dog Feeder can help you to manage your cat’s feeding schedule while allowing you some flexibility to work later.

Improper litter box maintenance

Cats are naturally clean animals, and their litter box is a crucial part of their daily routine. Neglecting to clean the litter box regularly or using scented litter that may be overpowering can lead to litter box aversion. Cats may start eliminating outside the litter box or develop anxiety-related issues. It's essential to keep their litter box clean and provide a suitable litter substrate. Regularly scoop out solid waste from the litter box. This helps keep the litter box clean and prevents odours from building up. Some cat parents will add non-toxic deodorizer like this Kit Cat Sprinkles Deodorising Cat Litter Beads to help eliminate bad odour. Also, consider doing a full litter box change and thorough cleaning every 1-2 weeks, depending on your cat's usage and the type of litter used.  

Forcing introductions

Introducing a cat to new people or animals should be done gradually and with caution. Forcing immediate interactions can cause stress and anxiety for your cat. Allow them to approach and investigate at their own pace, giving them time to adjust to new situations and individuals.

Improper scruffing

While scruffing is a technique used by mother cats to carry their kittens, it should not be practised on adult cats. Grabbing and carrying an adult cat by the scruff of their neck can cause discomfort and distress. When picking up your cat, use both hands to support their body. Place one hand under the chest area, behind the front legs, and the other hand supporting the hindquarters. This helps distribute the weight and makes the cat feel more secure.

Ignoring playtime

Cats are active creatures that require mental and physical stimulation. Neglecting regular playtime can result in boredom and frustration. Engaging in interactive play sessions with appropriate toys can help satisfy their hunting instincts and keep them mentally stimulated. Prepare different types of toys - interactive toys like this Kong Fishing Pole Teaser Cat Toy and self-play toys like this PETKIT 4 In 1 Cat Scratcher & Toy for when you are busy and have little time to spend with your kitty.  

Harsh punishments

Cats do not respond well to punishment, especially physical or aggressive measures. Hitting, yelling, or using other aversive techniques can damage the trust between you and your cat. Positive reinforcement, such as rewards and treats, is a more effective way to encourage good behaviour.

Inadequate grooming

Cats are meticulous groomers, and their grooming routine is vital for their well-being. Neglecting their grooming needs can lead to discomfort and health issues. Regular brushing, nail trimming, and dental care are essential aspects of cat ownership. How often you brush your cat’s hair will vary depending on the individual cat. It is generally recommended to brush long-haired and medium-haired cats daily, while short-haired cats can usually be brushed about once a week. It is recommended to trim your cat’s nails once every two to three weeks, and daily toothbrushing is recommended, if possible. Try this Tropiclean Fresh Breath - No Brushing Clean Teeth Gel for Cats to reduce tartar and bad breath if tooth brushing is not an option.  

Understanding what cats dislike can help us create a harmonious environment and strengthen the bond with our feline companions. Respecting their boundaries, providing a consistent routine, gentle handling, and regular playtime are key factors in ensuring their well-being and happiness. By avoiding certain actions and embracing your cat's preferences, you can build a loving and mutually satisfying relationship with your feline friend.  

KATHERINE KHOO

Katherine is a Pet Nutrition Specialist and GDP’s Pet Wellness Advisor. She is committed to helping pet owners make informed dietary and lifestyle choices in nurturing healthy pets. Katherine is also a practicing Nutritional Therapist (human nutrition) and has been helping hundreds of clients to heal naturally with nutrients.